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Relationship based Toddler Discipline

Relationship based discipline is guiding your child and responding to your child. Discipline is a part of life including understanding  child development, being present, adult modeling, the environment, schedule, effective communication, and seeing behaviors as communication. Proactive limits are set to preserve the relationship promoting an emotionally healthy parent-child relationship instead of retroactive punishment.


Using effective communication:
If "no" is not an allowed answer, don't ask.

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